About Me
- Mhalen
- "A free-spirited person, but in reality a simple person with simple wishes, hopes and dreams in life"
I Hate LOVE......
Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it?
It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest
and it opens up your heart and it means that
someone can get inside you and mess you up.
You build up all these defenses, you build up a
whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you...
then one stupid person, no different from any other
stupid person wanders into your stupid life..
You give them a piece of you. They didin't ask for it..
They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or
smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Loves takes hostages.. It gets inside you. It eats you out
and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase
like "maybe we should be just friends" turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart..... It hurts...
Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind.....
It's a soul-hurt. a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart-pain.... I Hate Love:-(
It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest
and it opens up your heart and it means that
someone can get inside you and mess you up.
You build up all these defenses, you build up a
whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you...
then one stupid person, no different from any other
stupid person wanders into your stupid life..
You give them a piece of you. They didin't ask for it..
They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or
smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Loves takes hostages.. It gets inside you. It eats you out
and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase
like "maybe we should be just friends" turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart..... It hurts...
Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind.....
It's a soul-hurt. a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart-pain.... I Hate Love:-(
Life.... Love.... Friend....
I live here in FO DK but I was born in Romblon,Philippines.. an island whose beauty reveals inside and out. I am very much fascinated with nature.
I love to play badminton, love to sing, love to swim, and love to cook food.
I love very much my two little angels, my family and my friends....they are my inspiration and they serves as my strongest wall I lean on in those times of trials in my life.
Luckiness relates my life......
I had experience how to live inlove, betrayed and mistrust. Those times was horrible yet.... Life must go on, Life is a journey where you dont know where it leads you... Life is what you make it. Now, I live my life to the fullest....
Frustrations would probably scare you.... but faith and courage will lead you to the right exit.
I love to play badminton, love to sing, love to swim, and love to cook food.
I love very much my two little angels, my family and my friends....they are my inspiration and they serves as my strongest wall I lean on in those times of trials in my life.
Luckiness relates my life......
I had experience how to live inlove, betrayed and mistrust. Those times was horrible yet.... Life must go on, Life is a journey where you dont know where it leads you... Life is what you make it. Now, I live my life to the fullest....
Frustrations would probably scare you.... but faith and courage will lead you to the right exit.
Truly.... Madly... Deeply
I thought that my life would remain as simple as an empty shell.. i thought that everything’s gonna be boring.. i thought life means problems and hurts and pains and tears and goodbyes. I was never happy.. yeah I did fell inlove before but he just broke my heart ... It was really painful and that pain made me senseless.. I got tired of gettin’ hurt.. so naive.. then i started to fail... I even became miserable and drowned into the tears that i shed... the good and the bad memories flew everywhere with me. I almost died out of frustration and depression.. I tried my best to keep myself busy by focusing on my two little angels, by working hard and my spiritual growth… I locked myself up in my own world and shun any sorts of social activity that would remind me of my past … Yes, I felt relieved (somehow) and I moved on (somehow).. but my whole being does not only survive with spiritual, social, and intellectual things…I am a real human being… A SIMPLE, SMART and LOVING person who still needs to fall inlove and need to be loved..
I hope one day , i will fall inlove again to the person whom i fell being love, respected and care for, who will treat me like his bestfriend, who will treat me like he has nothing but me.. who will never makes me feel that my sacrifices would be in vain. Who will makes me feel important. Who does not dream about me but dreams with me.. Who will never become untrue to me. Who will always shows the real him. No reservations.. And gradually proves that he’s responsible and worth loving for.
"Love is how you can give to persons you care for. Love is more than any words you tell the world".
I hope one day , i will fall inlove again to the person whom i fell being love, respected and care for, who will treat me like his bestfriend, who will treat me like he has nothing but me.. who will never makes me feel that my sacrifices would be in vain. Who will makes me feel important. Who does not dream about me but dreams with me.. Who will never become untrue to me. Who will always shows the real him. No reservations.. And gradually proves that he’s responsible and worth loving for.
"Love is how you can give to persons you care for. Love is more than any words you tell the world".
Wood Bench
While waiting for the bus, i sat down in a wood bench near the bus station and started looking around my sorroundings. It is winter and the snow is all around. The sun is shiny and the snow in the mountains reflects its natural beauty.
Facing in front of me is the sea... it is very calm and quite
The sing of the birds, the busy cars in the street is the only noise you can hear.
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I began reflecting myself and there are few questions come to my mind....
About my past life.....
About my future life.....
About the purpose of my life....
I'm started reminiscing the past when the bus arrived, I have to move and i dont have enough time to recall my past...
Past mistakes do happened in our life and dont look back at it long. Take the reason of the good things into your mind and then look forward.
Mistakes are lesson of wisdom. The past cannot be change. And the future is yet in your power.
Facing in front of me is the sea... it is very calm and quite
The sing of the birds, the busy cars in the street is the only noise you can hear.
´
I began reflecting myself and there are few questions come to my mind....
About my past life.....
About my future life.....
About the purpose of my life....
I'm started reminiscing the past when the bus arrived, I have to move and i dont have enough time to recall my past...
Past mistakes do happened in our life and dont look back at it long. Take the reason of the good things into your mind and then look forward.
Mistakes are lesson of wisdom. The past cannot be change. And the future is yet in your power.
A Love Story
One day, I woke up early in the morning to watch the sunrise. Ah, the beauty of GOD's creation is beyond description! As I watched, I praised GOD for His beautiful work. As I sat there, I felt the Lord's presence with me. He asked me;
"Do you love me?" I answered, "Of course, GOD" ! You are my Lord and Saviour!"
Then He asked "If you were physically handicapped, would you still love me?" I was pexplexed. I looked down upon my arms, legs and the rest of my body and wondered how many things I woudn't be able to do, the things that Itook for grtanted.And I answered, "It would be tough Lord, but I would still love you.
" Then the Lord said. " If you were blind, would you still love my creation?"How could I love something without being able to see it? Then I thought of all the blind people in the world and how many of them still loved GOD and His creation.So I answered, " It's hard to think of it, but I would still love you."
The Lord then asked me, " If you were deaf, would you still listen to my Word?"How could I listen to anything being deaf? Then I understood. Listening to GOD's Word is not merely using our ears, but our hearts. I answered, " It would be tough, but I would still listen to your Word.
The Lord then asked, " If you were mute, would you still praise My Name?"How could I praise without a voice? Then it occured to me: GOD wants us to sing from our very heart and soul. It never matters what we sound like. And praising GOD is not always with a song, but when we are persecuted, we give GOD praise with words of thanks. So I would still praise Your Name.
And the Lord asked, " Do you really love Me?"With courage and strong conviction, I answered boldly, " Yes Lord! I love You because You are the One and True God!"
I thought I had answered well. But God asked, " THEN WHY DO YOU SIN?"I answered, " Because I am only human, I am not perfect."Then why in times of peace do you stray the furthest? Why only in times of trouble do you pray the earnest?" No answers. only tears.
The Lord continued : "Why only sing at fellowships and retreats? Why seek Me only in times of worship? Why ask things so selfishly? Why ask things so unfaithfully?"The tears continued to roll down my cheeks."Why are you ashamed of me? Why are you not spreading the good news? Why in times of persecution, you cry to others when I offer My shoulder to cry on? Why make excuses when I give you oppurtunities to serve in My Name?I tried to answer, but there was no answer to give."You are blessed with life. I made you not to throw this gift away. I have blessed you with talents to serve Me, but continue to turn away. I have revealed My Word to you, but you do not gain in knowledge. I have spoken to you but your ears were closed. I have shown My blessings to you, but your eyes were turned away. I have sent you servants, but you sat idly by as they were pushed away. I have heard your prayers and I have answered them all.
"DO YOU TRULY LOVE ME?" I could not answer. How could I? I was embarrassed beyond relief. I had no excuse. What could I say to this? When my heart had cried out and the tears had flowed. I said, " Please forgive me Lord I am unworthy to be Your child. "The Lord answered, " That is the Grace, My child."I asked, "Then why do you continue to forgive me? Why do you love me so?"The Lord answered, " Because you are My creation, You are My child. I will never abandon you. When you cry, I will have compassion and cry with you. When you shout with joy, I will laugh with you. When you are down, I will encourage you. When you fall, I will raise you up. When you are tired, I will carry you. I will be with you till the end of days, and I will love you forever."Never had I cried so hard before. How could I have been so cold? How could I have hurt GOS as i had done?
I asked GOD, " HOW MUCH DO YOU LOVE ME? The Lord stretched out His arms, and I saw His nail-pierced hands. I bowed down at the feet of Christ, My Savior. And for the first time, I truly prayed.
" A Soulful Relationship "
If you're not married yet, share this with a friend
If you are married, share it with your spouse or other married couples and reflects on it.
An African proverb states that "Before you get married, keep both eyes open and after you marry, close one eye".
Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem, make you blind to warning signs.
Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really important.
Once you decide to commit to someone, over time his or her flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious.
If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you've got to learn to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.
You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths.
You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.
Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other?
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do
you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust,
past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter him or her.
You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life", you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.
Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship!
Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
Communication, intimacy, trust, a sense of humor, sharing household tasks, some getaway time without business or children and daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note).
Leave a nice message on the voicemail or send a nice email.
Sharing common goals and interests. Growth is important. Grow together, not away from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You can't always be together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment. Don't try to control one another. Learn each other's family situation. Respect his or her parents regardless.
Don't put pressure on each other for material goods.
Remember for richer or for poorer. If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion.
The difference between 'United' and 'Untied' is where you put the "I".
"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the GOD's
purpose that prevails."
If you are married, share it with your spouse or other married couples and reflects on it.
An African proverb states that "Before you get married, keep both eyes open and after you marry, close one eye".
Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem, make you blind to warning signs.
Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really important.
Once you decide to commit to someone, over time his or her flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious.
If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you've got to learn to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.
You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths.
You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.
Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other?
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do
you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust,
past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter him or her.
You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life", you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.
Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship!
Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
Communication, intimacy, trust, a sense of humor, sharing household tasks, some getaway time without business or children and daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note).
Leave a nice message on the voicemail or send a nice email.
Sharing common goals and interests. Growth is important. Grow together, not away from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You can't always be together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment. Don't try to control one another. Learn each other's family situation. Respect his or her parents regardless.
Don't put pressure on each other for material goods.
Remember for richer or for poorer. If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion.
The difference between 'United' and 'Untied' is where you put the "I".
"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the GOD's
purpose that prevails."
Only Time
Who can say where the road goes,
Where the day flows, only time?
And who can say if your love grows,
As your heart choose, only time?
Who can say why your heart sights,
As your live flies, only time?
And who can say why your heart cries
When your love lies, only time?
Who can say when the roads meet,
That love might be ,in your heart?
And who can say when the day sleeps,
And the night keeps all your heart?
Who can say if your love groves,
As your heart choose, only time?
And who can say where the road goes
Where the day flows, only time?
Who knows? Only time
Where the day flows, only time?
And who can say if your love grows,
As your heart choose, only time?
Who can say why your heart sights,
As your live flies, only time?
And who can say why your heart cries
When your love lies, only time?
Who can say when the roads meet,
That love might be ,in your heart?
And who can say when the day sleeps,
And the night keeps all your heart?
Who can say if your love groves,
As your heart choose, only time?
And who can say where the road goes
Where the day flows, only time?
Who knows? Only time
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It's Real...... LOVE
You may not believe in this but advice is great!!
Read all the way down, you might learn something!!
One
Give People more than they expect and
do it cheerfully
Two
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to
As you grow older, their conversational
skills will be as important as any other
Three
Don't believe what you hear, spend all you
have or sleep all you want
Four
When you say " I love You", mean it
Five
When you say "I'm Sorry", look the person
in the eye
Six
Be engaged at least six months before you
get married
Seven
Believe in love at first sight
Eight
Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who
dont have dreams.. dont have much
Nine
Love deeply and passionately, you might get
hurt but it's the only way to live life
completely
Ten
In disagreements, fight fairly, please no name
calling
Eleven
Don't judge people by their relatives
Twelve
Talk slowly, but think quickly
Thirteen
When someone ask you a question and
you dont want to answer, smile and ask,
"Why you want to know"?
Fourteen
Remember that great love and great achievements
involve great risk
Fifteen
When you lose, dont lose the lesson
Sixteen
Don't let a little dispute injure a great Friendship
Seventeen
When you realize you've made a mistake,
take immediate steps to correct it
Eighteen
Spend some time alone
Nineteen
Remember the three R's
Respect for self
Respect for others
Responsibility for all your actions
Read all the way down, you might learn something!!
One
Give People more than they expect and
do it cheerfully
Two
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to
As you grow older, their conversational
skills will be as important as any other
Three
Don't believe what you hear, spend all you
have or sleep all you want
Four
When you say " I love You", mean it
Five
When you say "I'm Sorry", look the person
in the eye
Six
Be engaged at least six months before you
get married
Seven
Believe in love at first sight
Eight
Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who
dont have dreams.. dont have much
Nine
Love deeply and passionately, you might get
hurt but it's the only way to live life
completely
Ten
In disagreements, fight fairly, please no name
calling
Eleven
Don't judge people by their relatives
Twelve
Talk slowly, but think quickly
Thirteen
When someone ask you a question and
you dont want to answer, smile and ask,
"Why you want to know"?
Fourteen
Remember that great love and great achievements
involve great risk
Fifteen
When you lose, dont lose the lesson
Sixteen
Don't let a little dispute injure a great Friendship
Seventeen
When you realize you've made a mistake,
take immediate steps to correct it
Eighteen
Spend some time alone
Nineteen
Remember the three R's
Respect for self
Respect for others
Responsibility for all your actions
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